This is what's up with me.

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My Heart Attack

I've written a little about my heart attack to share what happened. If your'e interested, scroll down and read my story below.

My Medications

As a way of keeping track of my meds and providing a quick access list to healthcare providers in an emergency, I've created this page to document it all.

 
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Food

As I learn a new way to live (and eat), I'm keeping a photo record of some of the more appetizing meals we create. There are hits and misses. This is a record of the hits.

Exercise

Yeah, I'm doing it every single day. For now, I'm focused on walking briskly at least 30 minutes every day. More to come.



Life Changed Forever

On Thursday, January 18th I had a heart attack.

Due to a number of unlikely circumstances (God) working in my favor (busted water pipe requiring abnormal physical exercise, time of day, new knowledge recently gained, and the right people already in the right place to react every step of the way), we caught things so quickly that the enzymes in my blood work hadn’t had time to present. Still, the EKG clearly showed something wasn’t normal. After consulting with docs at the Heart Hospital, they decided to fly me to OKC for surgery.

That night, we came home to a house flooded by a busted water pipe. So, I was working hard out in the cold air to try to get the water turned off at the meter. The shutoff valve had been buried and we were trying to dig it out to stop the flooding. I went to check the state of the house (to take a quick break from the digging), and as I was walking back to start again, I started having shortness of breath. At first, I chalked it up to the work and the cold, but it got worse and then there was no doubt what was happening. The best way I can describe it is that I could not catch my breath, no matter how deeply or fast or controlled I tried to breathe. I also quickly lost all my strength and was extremely light headed immediately - nearly passing out in the driveway. I just had to sit down. My first thought was the stress of the flood was causing a panic attack, but it came on so fast. As I mentally talked myself through what was happening, it became easy to rule that out. It was clear, I needed to go to the ER, but hated to admit it. Even harder to admit, I knew it was urgent and not only did I need help, I needed it fast. So, we called 911.

The ambulance was at "code 3" (whatever that means).  I asked if that was better or worse than a code 2, and the paramedic just said, "sit back and relax, it just means we're going to get you to the ER pretty quickly."  (I remember thinking that was funny because they had me strapped in... I had no choice but to "sit back," but I was not relaxed.)

I told my wife and girls that I was not scared (and I really wasn’t), but laying in that bed in the emergency room, with the pain in my chest steadily increasing and screaming that it could all be over, the sadness in thinking I might not see them again completely overtook me. Still, while I was the one in the hospital, my wife and kids are undoubtedly the ones most affected. I can’t imagine my life without them and hate that they’ve been forced to seriously consider theirs without me so soon.

Like I said, after lots of tests, needles, beeps and prods, the docs in Ada consulted with the docs in OKC and they all decided I would get a helicopter ride to the hospital in OKC.  (By the way, the Oklahoma Heart Hospital is an amazing place if you need it. I hope you don't, but if ever you do, you'll be in good hands!)

I remember the flight was cold and loud. It lasted about 25 minutes, but in that time I know there was a call for prayer and a response from hundreds who said they would. As I also prayed, I didn’t bargain, I didn’t plead for what I wanted. I prayed to fully accept God’s will - whatever it might be. The overwhelming sadness I had felt knowing I might be leaving those I love most behind was replaced with an equally overwhelming sense of peace. I didn’t know how it was going to work out (none of us really know, I guess), but I do know that it’s not for me to worry about. I will take action to heal and thrive, absolutely, but no worry.

When I arrived at the emergency room in OKC, it was crazy. I don’t remember too many details thanks to the morphine and whatever else I might have been given, and I’m thankful for that. I do remember being naked and shaved/prepped by about seven different people. I'm sure they were respectful and maintained my cover as much as they could, but I really had no concern for modesty. Thanks, morphine!

After surgery, I ended up with two stents and a plan to go back for one more in about a month. Another of my arteries is 100% blocked, but due to collateral growth of new arteries, it’s not an emergency to get that one done - still, I don’t quite feel out of the woods until we do it - or at least take another look at things. (Hopefully without the air support this time.) 

I actually do remember a lot of the people. Family and friends in person and on Facebook. The countless emergency room doctors and nurses, flight crew, and the people who took care of me after surgery were all amazing. There’s no way I can ever adequately express my gratitude to everyone, but trust me, it’s strong.

It’s not over yet, but I am feeling peaceful and loved and happy no matter what happens. God is good, and the people he has placed in our lives are amazing. Thank you! If you’ve been a part of that in any way, again, thank you so much!

I now have such clarity around the idea that we are not guaranteed our next breath. It’s not a morbid understanding, but more like a gift of a refreshed mind (however long it may last). There IS a guarantee I replayed in my mind over and over again throughout this experience, most vividly in the helicopter. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have eternal life.” -John 3:16. Those words, along with knowing/trusting Jesus fully, are the source of my peace.


One Week Later | January 25, 2018

One week ago, at this time, I had no idea what was in store for me that coming evening. It has been a week since the terrible event, but there have been so many good and wonderful things happen since then.

The people bringing food, calling, stopping by, taking care of my family (even things for the kids here and there), it's incredible. I have never been in a position to receive such concern and love and care, and it's humbling. To let go of the control I thought I had over my life and accept the generosity of others has been very hard for me. I've always valued taking care of oneself and not needing help, but God is crushing that spirit of pride in my heart and I'm so happy he is.

I've noticed a few more "coincidences" since coming home continue to solidify my belief that God really does have his hand on this whole thing.

In the last few days, sitting at home, I've had the opportunity to really reflect on what's important and not. As a result, I've been cleaning up some stuff online. For example, I've deleted a lot of my bookmarks (things I thought I wanted to read, explore, etc... but now hold no interest for me). This site used to be a blog about silly things, now it's more focused with zero stress or schedule. As I started building this page I included some things about myself that distracted from the story that would glorify God in all of this. I started feeling a twinge of something I couldn't explain, so I prayed for guidance, submitting myself once again to God's will and asking him to point out anything in my heart that needs fixing (no pun intended). I felt a strong lead in my heart to make this site super simple and focused. So, with only the briefest hesitation from the old me, I did what I believed God was leading me to do. This morning, the verse of the day was: "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting." Psalm 139:23-34 (That's exactly the prayer I prayed yesterday and obeyed.)

Another observation from this morning's blood glucose reading.  I came in a little high and needed to do a little physical activity. It's cold outside and my toe is injured (it got a little mangled by the dash of the helicopter when I was sent up for surgery a week ago, but it's healing nicely).  Suffice to say, strapping on a pair of shoes and walking the neighborhood isn't a good idea right now. However, due to the fact that our house was flooded that night, and is now on the road to repair, the living room/dining room are now completely empty, I have a small indoor walking track on soft carpet - meaning I can still walk (even barefoot) without further damaging my toe. I know this may seem like a silly/small thing, but taken in context with everything else that is happening, I still point to God for orchestrating it all...even the little silly things.

I am only one of God's children, nothing special or more loved than any other of God's children. To see him so faithful in even the smallest details is nearly unbelievable. Who am I that the God of creation would do this for me?

"Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? And, not one of them is forgotten before god. Why even the hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear not; you are of more value than many sparrows." - Luke 12:6-7


Update: Between Today and Tomorrow | February 10, 2018

I find myself living each day both as if there might not be a tomorrow and also as if there will be thousands more. It's a strange existence right now.

All the time and energy I spent planning and thinking about the future seems so silly to me now, but even so, I find my thoughts drifting to coming milestones in life I still hope to experience. I think about my daughters firsts (loves, cars, weddings, kids), my career, even the next time I dance with my wife in the living room, and so many other things. But I am well aware that there are no guarantees.

I now find myself waking each and every morning with the first thoughts of sincere gratitude for having emerged from my sleep for one more day. I actually get excited just by waking up. What a great way to wake up! My nightly prayers always include (verbal or not) a thankfulness for another day and the humble request for one more. I am living one day at a time, and there's something liberating about that. Literally trusting God for my next breath relieves so much worry and stress knowing that He is in control.

Frankly, I wouldn't want it any other way. I do wish I could have gained this perspective without the drama of the last several weeks. But even so, maybe I'll find myself thankful even for this experience...given time.